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虽然我成长在普通工薪家庭,家里也不存在差钱的尴尬,但是,我父母均是通过考学跳出的‘农门’,导致,父母在日常生活中都非常稀罕钱,他们特别懂得省吃节用。受父母影响,我从工作第一天起,也有了攒钱的习惯。

和老婆恋爱期间,她就经常说我抠,但又觉得我是一个适合过家的男人,她最终还是选择了嫁给我。婚后才发现,我和老婆的消费观完全不同。

我喜欢将洗了菜、洗了脸的水存起来,然后用作冲厕所,但是,老婆则在用水层面没有节制;我一旦在客厅看电视,卧室的灯一定是关着的,但是,老婆则没有随手关灯的习惯;如果家里有了剩饭,我会叮嘱老婆,下顿我来解决,老婆则不听我的叮嘱,然后将剩饭倒垃圾桶;只要有衣服穿,我压根就不太注重衣服的款式,以至于我一年都可以不买一件衣服,但是,妻则三天两头逛商场或光顾网店。我嫌妻太浪费,她则说我没有一点情趣。

因为这些日常小事,我们已吵了好多年,她没能改变我,我也没能改变她,即便如此,我们的感情还算稳定。但是,伴随着今年我去外地出差三个月,我们的婚姻发生了质变,因为,在我出差归来后,我发现,我们家已经成了老婆和我和哥们的天下:他们染指了婚外情。

说说我这个哥们:一个离异男,曾经好吃懒做,导致他前妻觉得和他过日子没希望,最终和他离婚。

最近几年,我这个哥们做生意赚了点小钱,平日里,喜欢在超市买点熟食以及小酒,上我家蹭饭。在我看来,他只是单纯来我家蹭饭,没想到,我妻竟然被她这点小恩小惠给收买了,并认定我哥们比我出手阔绰,以至于,我出差归来,我的头上已经绿了。

如今,妻对出轨一事一点也不避讳,我哥们甚至把我家当成了他自己家。对此,我非常气愤,每天看着他俩在我眼前眉来眼去,我觉得无比恶心。

不想离婚的原因包括:不忍心伤害孩子;觉得离婚是一桩赔钱的买卖。我该怎么办,才能让妻和我哥们这对狗男女不再联系?

回复网友:

钱是生不带来,死不带走的东西,你又何必太过抠门?你不仅仅是抠门,你已经抠到了极致,导致,你妻会觉得和你在一起生活,没有一丁点情趣。虽然说,铺张浪费确实不好,但是,你现在已经不再是铺张浪费的段位,因为,面对给你戴绿帽的你妻,你想到的不是戴绿帽本身的耻辱,而是觉得离婚是一桩赔钱的买卖。既然,你认为钱重要,那么,你索性和你妻离婚,每天抱着钱入睡好了。生活,需要良知、责任、义务、品德,但是,生活也需要快乐、享受、付出、有节制的挥霍。

 

你妻对你哥们一开始产生好感,只是觉得对方懂得生活,后来爱上你哥们,是在你出差期间,和对方的相处,觉得那才是真正意义上的生活。你妻出轨你哥们固然不对,但是,你不觉得你妻的出轨,与你的生活做派有着必然联系吗?不想说怎样的生活方式是靠谱的生活方式,只能说,你和你妻原本就不是一个世界的人,分开,或许才是最好的结果。


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